Posted by DAisym on July 16, 2007, at 15:06:04
In reply to Re: Needs, wants.....bleck » DAisym, posted by sunnydays on July 16, 2007, at 10:14:41
Your therapist is a smart guy...
I'm always impressed with how well he handles your loving feelings and makes sense of them. Do you ever wonder if the love you feel for him will translate into something good with someone else?
Awhile back I told my therapist that what I really wanted was for him to save me. "From what?" he asked. I could not verbalize exactly what I was talking about. It is this sense of wanting someone to rush in and keep you safe but it is disconcerting because there is nothing dangerous going on for me right now.
So maybe I can borrow what your therapist said. Maybe what I really want is that sense of "it will all be OK" and I'm hoping my therapist can provide that. I'll have to think about it some more.
Thanks for sharing it.
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