Posted by Dinah on September 9, 2007, at 13:06:34
In reply to Re: 'moments of meeting' » Dinah, posted by twinleaf on September 9, 2007, at 1:03:37
I don't tend to associate my experience with different age states. And no, I don't really. I'm not sure after all this time there is a new way to know me, and I don't know that it ever involved what you're describing. It was always my explaining things to him and to myself I guess over and over until something I said clicked with him and he understood. I don't think I felt magic at those moments. More like achievement.
When I lose my words, he doesn't understand what I'm trying to convey at all. He doesn't experience things in the same way I do.
I do remember when I realized he could tell who he was talking to (for want of a better phrase). That felt... I don't have the words but I'm sure it was not what you describe.
I think I am a bit jealous, although I guess my own therapy has its own ways of being special.
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