Posted by muffled on September 12, 2007, at 21:53:09
In reply to Do you think it would help to know..., posted by JoniS on September 12, 2007, at 16:12:19
I too have worried bout what my T thot of me.
One time I asked her on the phone if I was a pain in the *ss!!! and wait...it gets worse.....she DIDN'T say NO!!!!!LOL!!!
She kinda wended around stuff, and so I asked again, and she still didn't say no!!!! and finally said I was 'challenging'!!!LOL! So I said what the heck does THAT mean, and she kinda backtracked around some, and FINALLY allowed as I wasn't a pain in the *ss......ROFL!!!
I love that my T is honest bout such things :-) Makes me feel safer.
I also must say things that infer to her, well, but anyways, some things I say, what I dunno, but then she tells me that she cares bout me. Usu at the end of a session I think. That I am important to her. Damn, that just kinda messes me up some. I guess I don't actually understand WTF it MEANS??? really.
Anyhow, I don't think its a bad thing to know that you are valued by someone who knows more about you than proly anyone. I think its proly a good thing somehow, if weird. So my T DOES say stuff like that, but like I say, it kinda weirds me some. I guess cuz i don't understand...
Go figger.
FWIW I have enjoyed your writings very much and am glad to have you as part of the babble community here :-)
M
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