Posted by Honore on September 13, 2007, at 13:56:01
In reply to Re: Do you think it would help to know... » JoniS, posted by Dinah on September 13, 2007, at 11:12:01
Joni, it might help. It's a good thing to talk about, at the very least.
As someone pointed out, though, it can be a pandora's box-- you can be always questioning the answer-- maybe it will really satisfy and touch you, or trouble you, but it can also feel like not enough, or not clear, or maybe not true, or-- just something that you can't quite rest with--- and, so many other things.
Some Ts don't like to answer this; other Ts do. But it's a very important question-- how your T feels, what you imagine your T feels, how you feel about your T, and about how he/she feels...etc. etc ..... and so forth... (it can go on forever).
If or when you feel ready, I wouldn't be afraid to ask. Whatever the boundaries are, or aren't, you'll learn a lot from it. I'm sorry, though, that you feel sad about it.
Honore
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