Posted by fleeting flutterby on August 6, 2008, at 13:44:07
In reply to Re: anyone understand? » fleeting flutterby, posted by Phillipa on August 6, 2008, at 0:47:02
> Mandy yes he must want to stop on his own. Would he go to AA? Love Phillipa ps and if you go to alanon you don't give last names.<<
argh!! but I don't like this...... him stopping for himself...... coz then..... then..... I DON'T HAVE ANY CONTROL OVER THE SITUATION! like, if I'm responsive and keep him happy he'll maybe stop drinking (oops- not yelling AT you Phillipa... just me being frustrated with this) I really really want to go to alanon- would like to talk to others going through similar.... but I'm just too scared..... small town..... I'm sure someone there would see me in some other place around town with my husband-- then it could jeapordize his career..... maybe I'm being paranoid.... I just am so fearful of making this worse than it already is. *sigh*......
thanks for replying sweetie :o)
ugh... feel so hopeless....... :o(
flutterby-mandy
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