Posted by Dinah on June 23, 2009, at 23:29:05
In reply to Re: Need help reframing » Dinah, posted by antigua3 on June 23, 2009, at 20:58:52
You are very much a help. I'm having my own anger issues with this. I don't know what's in his mind, but it seems to me that this is insulting to me and to the fourteen years where we supposedly talked about these things. Throwing the paper back is reasonably mild in comparison to some of the thoughts I'm having.
My family was crazy in its own way. I don't know what an average family is like, but ours probably isn't it. I got the distinct impression that as long as I acted ok, they didn't really want to know how I felt. But that could be my own belief and not the truth at all. Aside from that I don't remember any consistent unspoken rules. My family spoke anything that entered their minds. Yet doing the same wasn't a rule.
If I do the oval thing, it won't be by friday. I'm upset about other things in my life as well, and don't need the distress of digging up stuff that happened so long ago that I barely can remember.
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