Posted by sunny10 on May 3, 2005, at 14:35:05
In reply to Re: drug use and concurrent lying and deception » sunny10, posted by AuntieMel on May 3, 2005, at 12:35:28
if there was nothing to stop you; kids, money, et cetera; would you have simply left your husband because he had a hard time trusting you?
I guess that is what I fear most. That all of the loving and trying to be supportive and helpful won't mean a thing if he leaves because I can't trust him right now.
And he's making that difficult because he's not communicating openly with me- mostly 'cause he's ashamed of what a mess he made of our relationship. He wants to "be strong", to "be a man"...
Did you ever feel that way? Like working on the relationship and regaining your husband's trust just wasn't worth it?
I know- I'm a mess...
I just told Lar that I would write him a letter to let him know how I feel and request that he answer a few questions for me.
Maybe then I could feel more in control of my own runaway emotions...
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