Posted by AuntieMel on May 2, 2005, at 14:56:28
In reply to Re: I think the therapist is wrong again » AuntieMel, posted by Dinah on April 29, 2005, at 16:35:20
I know what you mean. Sometimes (ok, more than sometimes) I feel like the one in the middle. "I know dad said x, but he was angry and what he really meant was xy"
And I know you aren't talking about full fledged abuse. I don't think you would stay there if it was really abusive.
Maybe if you silently tape some of the things your son says for him? It sounds like he wouldn't purposely hurt his son - maybe it just hasn't soaked in that he is.
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