Posted by pinkeye on July 16, 2004, at 16:33:04
In reply to Re: Transference - choices, posted by vwoolf on July 16, 2004, at 16:16:30
I half agree with JenStar and half disagree. What Jenstar says works for everything other than for owr emotions. If it is a rational issue that we are talking about, I would say avoiding the problem situation and trying to work out the issue without geting involved would be the best approach.
But as far as our own emotions go, reliving and experiencing the same things again and then having a differnt outcome seems to be the only way of healing many times. That is why transference helps you. It helps you relive your past hurt and at the end know that you could have a better outcome than in the past. That is what really heals.
But of course, it would only help if your pdoc is a trusted person. IF you have any doubt that he might end up abusing you again, don't go for it.
Pinkeye.
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