Posted by pinkeye on July 17, 2004, at 1:23:06
In reply to Re: Transference - choices, posted by shortelise on July 17, 2004, at 1:12:42
Actuallly after reading everyone's posts, I agree with the majority. You would be much safer working with your current T. You would definitely get into quite a bit of struggle and trouble and heartache if you are going to go with your pdoc.
But all said, if I had to make my choice, I would still chose my pdoc even though I know it is probably bad for me. I am usually not strong enough to resist a temptation and feeling attached and understood.
But ultimately it is your call. Or you can do something else, stop seeing your pdoc for 3 months and go with your current T. And try to genuinely work it out. If after 3 months also you still find you are not able to connect with her, then maybe you will be able to say you are done with your T and then try this pdoc or anohter t?
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