Posted by sunny10 on January 27, 2005, at 12:39:14
In reply to Re: It'll be ok, posted by Susan47 on January 27, 2005, at 10:23:06
> Thanks for your kind words, Sunny. I'm embarrassed about my feelings for my ex-T; loving someone and not being loved in return is very humiliating.
........ (old-school thinking, dear)
> I can't talk about it to another professional. And I know what she would say, and I carry the secret little hope in my heart that he does love me and I refuse to have the hope shattered by well-meaning professionals. They have no right.
......... (and sorry again, but read your FIRST paragraph again, I'll wait --- muzac plays annoyingly in the background)
You are sabotaging yourself with this very post, honey. Please see this...if you love him, but he does love you (and you've been taught somewhere that you should feel humiliated by one-sided love--- not true by the way, only a learning experience IMHO)then,
how is it possible for the new T will shatter the "secret little hope in my heart that he does love me" ?
You are setting yourself up to be wrong no matter WHAT the outcome is, aren't you?
Why would you want to do that??
-sunny10
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