Posted by Susan47 on January 27, 2005, at 13:03:04
In reply to Re: It'll be ok, posted by sunny10 on January 27, 2005, at 12:39:14
I posted a long bunch of stuff on Writing again it's about love and now I KNOW why it FEELS humiliating but isn't necessarily that it's something else, because loving someone means they have all the qualities you see in yourself, and
if they don't love you back it means you're fooling yourself about the qualities you think you have, it means you're a fraud, somehow, about who you think you are, you've fooled yourself into thinking you're someone you're really not. You know, like the person who says, I'm generous and kind, but in reality others might see him as a penny-pinching boor. So you've gone and arrested your development towards your true potential, and now you can See in this person you're in love with, what you really aren't if they don't love you back. You see, it's all about yourself....
Susan, give it a rest. A break. No one will understand what you're saying. I don't think people really understand what love is, they all think it's an airy-fairy emotion .. but it isn't, it's a survival device, not just for reproduction, but for the development of the human species into something truly, spiritually beautiful ...
poster:Susan47
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