Posted by muffled on January 4, 2006, at 11:55:54
I read so much here about the hurt of therapy. About attachment. I'm not even sure what it means really.
I don't understand why everybody gets so attached to their T's to the point of pain? Like that in of itself is a reason for therapy. Seems sort of circular to me. Are people supposed to do this? Am I supposed to do this? Is this a particular type of therapy? I don't mean no offense, I just don't understand it. My T is female. She's human and gots flaws all right. And I guess I sort of attached in a way (been going over 1 yr.-weekly). But I won't allow too much attach cuz of what I read here. I don't want that pain. It sounds awful. I don't know much bout T's and people and stuff. Attachment=hurt, thats what it seems? If I get too close to T I get scared.
Thanks for any replies. Hope I made sense. Hope I not offending nobody. I'm in an odd place right now.
Muffled
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