Posted by fairywings on January 5, 2006, at 15:27:37
In reply to Re: ***T-trigger**why get so attached? » muffled, posted by bent on January 4, 2006, at 12:12:50
Hi Bent,
I think sometimes attachment comes from having a good T, who sits patiently with you through the all bad stuff, makes you feel secure in the relationship, helps you (re)gain a sense of value or whatever you're working through, is mostly kind, helpful, and caring.....it's hard not to attach to someone like that. I love it/hate it, and look forward to being able to give that to myself instead of looking for someone else to give it to me. But since I'm in therapy I want to be able to feel what I feel, which is attached. Unfortunately for me that causes embarrassment, I guess from never allowing myself that, so I can't show or express the attachment. Ah, just one more thing to work through. Sh*t!
fw
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