Posted by B2chica on July 19, 2007, at 15:23:18
In reply to Talking about csa to others **trigger**, posted by vwoolf on July 19, 2007, at 14:54:41
What a HORRIBLE person he is...i'm sorry he is/was your friend... but his response to your conversation was at the VERY LEAST inappropriate!
and to think he supports other survivors????
first his response about digging up the past...although not helpful to you is somewhat common, i had a pdoc tell me this once also.
HOWEVER, to then make advances toward you? is either along the lines of sick and disturbed OR he was just attracted to you but had NO compassion for what you had just divulged to him!
either way i'm sorry but you have no need for a man of his sort in your life.
i really hate to sound so harsh but i am REALLY angry about his actions...maybe i'm taking it a little too personal, and i'm not in a really good place right now.but no matter what, THIS IS NOT ANY REFLECTION OF YOU!!!!!
YOU did not ask for sexual advance from this creedent, nor should you EVER feel in ANY WAY guilty for this slimes actions!
this is ALL on him!i'm sorry vwoolf. i'm very emotional right now and maybe i shouldn't have responded so harshly, i'll stop for today and come back tomorrow. maybe others can be more objective.
Please PLEASE take heart that you are NOT RESPONSIBLE for either his or your fathers actions!!please take care.
poster:B2chica
thread:770573
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