Posted by tofuemmy on July 19, 2007, at 18:15:10
In reply to Talking about csa to others **trigger**, posted by vwoolf on July 19, 2007, at 14:54:41
Wow. I need to take my time here, cuz this guy really irks me.
There are men out there who prefer to date survivors of CSA. I know a guy who seems to do this exclusively. It's sick, twisted behavior. I don't for a second believe that they are into "saving" the poor victim. I think although they may not be offenders themselves - this is the next best thing they can get.
The idea that after you told your story, he was actually turned on enough to hit on you.....grrrrr. I really worry about what else he is up to hanging with survivors and traumatized kids. Ucky.
Please stay far away from this person!
emmy
P.S. Of course I am not saying that every man who has dated a survivor is an evil wierdo. But if that's your preference....quit it and seek therapy.
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