Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger*

Posted by Daisym on September 16, 2007, at 1:18:05

In reply to Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* » muffled, posted by antigua3 on September 16, 2007, at 1:09:58

Can you tie your shame to something? Is it about loving him or is it about having sex with him? Is it about having a response or is it about *still* trying to figure this out?
Shame is usually introjected from abuser and you can't hand it back because he died. That doesn't mean you are stuck with it, I think it just makes it harder.
I have a weird question for you. Do you ever feel shame when you hurt yourself - even if it is an accident? Like running into something or cutting your finger?

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How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* antigua3 9/15/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* » antigua3 RealMe 9/15/07
Re: How do we really forgive .**csa trigger* » RealMe muffled 9/15/07
Ah hell ,sorry antigua, got off topic, sorry :-( (nm) muffled 9/15/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* muffled 9/15/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* » RealMe antigua3 9/15/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* » antigua3 Daisym 9/15/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* » antigua3 RealMe 9/15/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* » RealMe Daisym 9/15/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* » Daisym antigua3 9/16/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* » RealMe antigua3 9/16/07
P.S. antigua3 9/16/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* » muffled antigua3 9/16/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* Daisym 9/16/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* antigua3 9/16/07
Re: P.S. seldomseen 9/16/07
Re: P.S. muffled 9/16/07
Re: P.S. » muffled seldomseen 9/16/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trig » antigua3 Honore 9/16/07
Thx seldom, gonna bring in and talk to T bout it. (nm) » seldomseen muffled 9/16/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* » antigua3 RealMe 9/16/07
Re: How do we really forgive ourselves? **csa trigger* » Daisym RealMe 9/16/07
Getting angry with our Ts » RealMe antigua3 9/17/07

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