Posted by Dinah on August 3, 2008, at 13:54:55
In reply to Re: rofl. I'm back to timebomb issues too. » Dinah, posted by Nadezda on August 3, 2008, at 11:42:12
No, you in no way contributed.
I have too many issues in my life right now about responsibility. The biggest one being my mother. I think that's pushed me over the edge on my responsibility OCD.
I just scared myself with my own thoughts is all. Being around my therapist will reassure me that my thoughts went in totally incorrect directions. Thirteen years of relationship trumps one experience.
I do think I can talk to him in terms of neutrality, so thank you for that. It's not too scary a way to phrase it with him. He was definitely not neutral. I need him to be neutral.
If I were anyone else, I'd probably advise that it's best to talk about the scary thoughts with him. But it isn't the right time for that.
Thanks, Nadezda. You did nothing but help.
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