Posted by jammerlich on July 22, 2007, at 22:43:38
In reply to Re: Needs -- Jammer + Daisy, posted by TherapyGirl on July 22, 2007, at 20:59:34
I was uncertain about it, too, and still am. On the one hand, I think Daisy has a really good point. It could be really important to see her initial reaction and not give her time to plan things too much. On the other, I know she sometimes (not frequently, but when she does, it's a zinger) will say something that completely freaks me out and then, later, when I address it, will say that's not really what she meant and she was "thinking out loud." So, I hate the idea that she might say something off the cuff that, later, she realizes she doesn't really mean. I don't think I could last through something like that surrounding this issue. It's a tough call, isn't it?
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