Posted by gardenergirl on January 2, 2006, at 7:12:59
In reply to (((((gardengirl)))))))))))), posted by happyflower on January 1, 2006, at 13:18:45
Thanks for the hug. :)
> First of all the pain of needing support and not getting it is about the worst feeling in the world. I unfortuantly have felt this, it really sucks.
I'm sorry you know this feeling. It does s*ck.
> 2nd thing that is painful, is when you are trying to talk about your issues with someone and then they turn around to be about them, and your needs get lost. Hate that feeling, hate it when it happens.
Yeah, it's almost a slap in the face that not only am I not going to support you, I'm going to demand more from you. Sheesh.
> Are you too needy? I would say no, but I would say that you probably need more support than normal concidering the death of your grandma, plus you reduced your therapy sessions too, not too long ago. Your husband needs to step up and support you during this painful time in your life. I can't believe he asked if you are okay after reading what you wrote, whats the symbol for a smack upside the head? LOL
We need to come up with one. Or a forehead flick.
>Not funny I know, but still why can husbands be so dense in the head?
I'll ask my T that today.
> I understand your crying and it really hurts to cry alone without much support. I know the feeling way too much. Take care of yourself, GG, take your time healing, and cry all you need to. When do you see your T next?
Thanks, sweetie. I appreciate your support and understanding. I see T this a.m.
gg
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